Top 10 Questions Every New Engaged Couple Asks – Answered!
- Luxx Wedding Planning
- Feb 17
- 3 min read
Updated: May 10
Congratulations! You just said “Yes” to the love of your life, and now the exciting journey of wedding planning begins. But if you're feeling a little overwhelmed, don’t worry—you’re not alone! Every newly engaged couple has questions, and we’re here to answer the top 10 that may be on your mind.

1. Where Do I Even Start With Wedding Planning?
The best place to start is by setting a budget and discussing your vision as a couple. From there, make a rough guest list and choose a date. Once those basics are in place, securing a venue should be your next big step.
2. How Much Does a Wedding Really Cost?
Wedding costs vary depending on location, guest count, and level of luxury. On average, weddings in the U.S. cost around $25,000-$35,000, but you can have a beautiful wedding on any budget with the right planning and priorities.
3. When Should I Book My Vendors?
The sooner, the better! Some vendors book up a year or more in advance, especially venues, photographers, and planners. Aim to book your venue first, then secure your caterer, photographer, florist, and entertainment within the next few months.
4. Do I Really Need a Wedding Planner?
While not a requirement, a wedding planner can save you time, stress, and even money by negotiating with vendors. If a full planner isn’t in your budget, consider a day-of coordinator to ensure everything runs smoothly. Booking any Luxx Service will also give you access to vendor discounts, which helps you save even more!
5. How Do I Choose the Perfect Venue?
Think about your guest count, budget, and overall style (romantic, rustic, modern, etc.). Tour multiple venues, ask about packages and restrictions, and ensure they align with your vision.
6. How Do I Handle My Guest List?
Start with close family and friends, then expand. Consider venue capacity and budget. If you’re struggling, create an A-list (must-invite) and a B-list (invite if space allows) to manage numbers.
7. When Should I Buy My Wedding Dress?
Most bridal experts recommend shopping 9-12 months before your wedding to allow time for fittings and alterations. If you're short on time, sample sales or off-the-rack options are great alternatives!
8. What Should I Ask My Vendors Before Booking?
Always ask about availability, pricing, cancellation policies, package details, and any hidden fees. For photographers, ask to see full wedding galleries, and for caterers, request a tasting!
9. How Can I Make My Wedding Unique?
Personalize your wedding with custom vows, unique decor, signature cocktails, or interactive experiences like a live painter or food station. Think about what represents you as a couple!
10. What Are the Biggest Wedding Planning Mistakes to Avoid?
Not setting a firm budget (and sticking to it!)
Booking vendors too late (secure the important ones early)
Skipping a rain plan for outdoor weddings
Not delegating tasks (let family, friends, or your planner help!)
Forgetting to enjoy the process – It’s YOUR day!
Final Thoughts
Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but with the right guidance, it can be an exciting and enjoyable experience. If you need expert help along the way, Luxx Wedding Planning & Events is here to bring your vision to life, stress-free!
✨ Ready to start planning your dream wedding? Contact us today for a free consultation! ✨
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